Extreme shyness can be positive and negative. Its usually not a turn off unless the way the girl expresses shyness is by acting aloof.
Is being shy unattractive?
Studies have shown that women almost universally find shyness unattractive in potential romantic partners. And research from the University of Wisconsin at Madison has demonstrated that shy men lag behind their less shy peers when it comes to being offered good jobs, getting married, and having children.
Why do some people turn out shy?
Reacting to New Things. New and unfamiliar situations can bring out shy feelings — like the first day of school, meeting someone new, or speaking in front of a group for the first time. People are more likely to feel shy when theyre not sure how to act, dont know how others will react, or when attention is on them.
Is it bad to be a shy person?
Shyness is usually associated with being quiet, insecure, and/or socially anxious. Being shy is not necessarily bad. We can all feel shy from time to time, so its alright to feel a little uncomfortable in new situations and with new people.
What does it mean when a guy says youre shy?
If a guy is shy around you, but outgoing with others, this could mean several things, but overall, means that he is uneasy around you for some reason.
Why being shy is OK?
You Appear More Approachable. When shyness is not extreme, it can make you appear more approachable to others. Shyness, and the modesty and self-effacing nature that go with it, are rarely threatening to others and may allow people to feel more comfortable around you.