Should I divorce my BPD spouse?
Divorcing a Partner who has Borderline or any other Personality Disorder. When a relationship is ending it can bring out hostility and anger on both sides. Sometimes a family law office can help with divorce mediation, but in other cases mediation wont be effective.
Should you leave someone with BPD?
Enable the person with BPD by protecting them from the consequences of their actions. If your loved one wont respect your boundaries and continues to make you feel unsafe, then you may need to leave. It doesnt mean you dont love them, but your self-care should always take priority.